Hailey Robertson
Fall 2013
Thinking & Writing
Essay
The New Normal
Silver
Linings Playbook is a touching
movie that explores the world of mental illness in a refreshing way. Most of
the characters in fact have varying degrees of a disorder, but Pat is the main
character who is the focus and who has the most severe mental illness and in
turn gets the most attention for it. Silver
Linings Playbook aims to show the viewer that people with mental illnesses
are like anybody else and maybe in some cases more normal, and need not be
treated any differently which can be harming.
The film opens with Pat in mental health facility
because of the outburst that he had when he found out that his wife was having
an affair, and we later learn that he is undiagnosed bi-polar. He comes out of
the facility when he does because his mother decides it has been “long enough”
and it’s time for him to come home even though the doctors don’t recommend him
leaving yet. This is the first of many times we see how uncomfortable both Pats
family and friends are with the fact that he was in a mental facility. It goes
further to point out first with his friend and then with his own brother that
they both make excuses why they couldn’t visit him while he was in the mental
facility because it would have been too uncomfortable to see him in that sort
of situation.
One of the biggest hot topic issues in our country
right now is that of guns. We are seeing a trend of mass shootings all over the
country, and nine times out of ten the shooters has a mental disorder which
drove them to take the lives of others and usually themselves. If we focused
more on getting people psychological help, this wouldn’t be as big of a
problem. It would be an easy thing to teach children all through school the
signs of these disorders like depression, bi-polar, etc., and that way everyone
would know what to look for in people that they are close too. Instead we live
in a world where when someone starts acting “weird” or “off” many peoples
reaction is to separate themselves from them, which is the worst thing that
could be done. Like we see in the movie, Pat does not have any progress because
his family is tiptoeing around him or treating him differently, it is when he
is with Tiffany, who also had a mental breakdown because of the death of her
husband, that is honest to him and really understands what he is going through
that he starts to improve. One in four adults in America struggle with a mental
disorder, diagnosed or not, and maybe that would be lower if we knew what to
look for to get people help. Or maybe if we got rid of the stigma that
surrounds it people would feel more confortable coming forward themselves and
seek out help.
Honesty is a big theme throughout the movie because
both Pat and Tiffany are very honest with everyone else which makes others
uncomfortable. At one point the two of them are discussing different
medications they had been on and the others that are in the room are visually
uncomfortable with the openness with which they are discussing it. Then later
when one of Pats family members tries to stop him from being so open, he
retorts that maybe he, Tiffany and his friend from the facility all know
something that they don’t because of their being honest. This also comes up
right after Pat’s friend points out that Tiffany goes to therapy so he should
watch out for her, even though Pat himself goes to therapy. The film touches on
this over and over again with people being uncomfortable with mental illness
and almost dehumanizing them the way they talk about them, and it’s really to
point out that this really happens all over and that we ourselves need to not
be so thrown off by something as normal as therapy. Going to a counselor or a
psychologist is so normal these days that it really shouldn’t have the stigma
that it does, because it doesn’t deserve it and could help so many people and
maybe even stop the growing number of shootings and suicides.
It is not just the main characters that struggle
psychologically. Pats father has violent outbursts and his friend Ronnie is
struggling in his marriage where he is too afraid to confront his issues and
instead listens to heavy metal. Pat who knows this is no good tries to help
him, but Ronnie just responds that its okay because it isn’t possible to be
happy all the time, which Pat is appalled by because of his mantra of finding a
silver lining in everything. With this attitude it is no wonder that people
have trouble confronting their issues because they believe it is just something
that happens and they don’t have any choice but to accept it and move on
without fixing anything.
Silver
Linings Playbook fights for those
with mental illness. In this day and age when everyone is so judgmental of
those will disorders that they brush them off, treat them differently, or
tiptoe around the fact that something may be off about them. When in reality
they should be supportive and urge them to get help if it is serious enough. This
film urges that we get rid of the stigma that surrounds something so common
that a quarter of Americans struggle with it in one way or another, and treat
them like the normal human beings that they are.